If you mean the old "!" mark that flashed in the old xchat in the notification indicator place, well now you get the unity notification instead, a small blue triangle on the top left side + a blue arrow (instead of the usual white one) next to the xchat icon on the unity bar. if you don't get them then maybe u could try messing with the xchat notification settings
If you mean the old "!" mark that flashed in the old xchat in the notification indicator place, well now you get the unity notification instead, a small blue triangle on the top left side + a blue arrow (instead of the usual white one) next to the xchat icon on the unity bar. if you don't get them then maybe u could try messing with the xchat notification settings