follow up:
I suspended the machine, got back, and the connection worked
I hibernated, turned it on again... the connection didn't work, tried to reconnect, disabled the account, enabled it gain: "network error"
then I ran killall telepathy-butterfly and everything worked.
here is an extract of the debug log:
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empathy/Other-DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:54:29.122586: idle_session_status_changed_cb: Session idle state changed, yes -> no
empathy/Other-DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:54:29.122623: idle_session_status_changed_cb: Restoring state to 2
empathy/Other-DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:54:29.122647: empathy_idle_set_presence: Changing presence to (null) (2)
empathy/Contact-DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:54:29.155586: contact_list_store_contact_updated_cb: Contact:'<email address hidden>' updated, checking roster is in sync...
empathy/Contact-DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:54:29.155668: contact_list_store_contact_update: Contact:'<email address hidden>' in list:YES, should be:YES
empathy/Contact-DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:54:29.155697: contact_list_store_contact_update: Set active (contact updated)
empathy/Contact-DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:54:29.156014: contact_list_store_contact_updated_cb: Contact:'<email address hidden>' updated, checking roster is in sync...
empathy/Contact-DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:54:29.156079: contact_list_store_contact_update: Contact:'<email address hidden>' in list:YES, should be:YES
empathy/Contact-DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:54:29.156105: contact_list_store_contact_update: Set active (contact updated)
empathy/Other-DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:54:29.180330: idle_presence_changed_cb: Presence changed to 'available' (2) ""
empathy/(null)-DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:54:31.277704: tp_contact_factory_weak_notify: Remove finalized contact 0x8d23260
empathy/Contact-DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:54:31.277764: contact_finalize: finalize: 0x8d23260
empathy/Account-DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:54:40.763581: empathy_accounts_dialog_show_application: Launching empathy-accounts (if_needed: 0, hidden: 0, account: /org/freedesktop/Telepathy/Account/butterfly/msn/MYHOTMAIL_40hotmail_2ecom0)
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empathy/Contact-DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:59:48.631114: contact_manager_status_changed_cb: Adding new connection: /org/freedesktop/Telepathy/Connection/butterfly/msn/MYHOTMAIL_40hotmail_2ecom
empathy/(null)-DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:59:48.859230: list_ensure_channel_cb: failed: TargetID stored not valid for type 3
empathy/(null)-DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:59:48.958123: tp_contact_list_group_ready_cb: Group net added
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follow up:
I suspended the machine, got back, and the connection worked
I hibernated, turned it on again... the connection didn't work, tried to reconnect, disabled the account, enabled it gain: "network error"
then I ran killall telepathy-butterfly and everything worked.
here is an extract of the debug log:
.... Other-DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:54:29.122586: idle_session_ status_ changed_ cb: Session idle state changed, yes -> no Other-DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:54:29.122623: idle_session_ status_ changed_ cb: Restoring state to 2 Other-DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:54:29.122647: empathy_ idle_set_ presence: Changing presence to (null) (2) Contact- DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:54:29.155586: contact_ list_store_ contact_ updated_ cb: Contact:'<email address hidden>' updated, checking roster is in sync... Contact- DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:54:29.155668: contact_ list_store_ contact_ update: Contact:'<email address hidden>' in list:YES, should be:YES Contact- DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:54:29.155697: contact_ list_store_ contact_ update: Set active (contact updated) Contact- DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:54:29.156014: contact_ list_store_ contact_ updated_ cb: Contact:'<email address hidden>' updated, checking roster is in sync... Contact- DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:54:29.156079: contact_ list_store_ contact_ update: Contact:'<email address hidden>' in list:YES, should be:YES Contact- DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:54:29.156105: contact_ list_store_ contact_ update: Set active (contact updated) Other-DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:54:29.180330: idle_presence_ changed_ cb: Presence changed to 'available' (2) "" (null)- DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:54:31.277704: tp_contact_ factory_ weak_notify: Remove finalized contact 0x8d23260 Contact- DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:54:31.277764: contact_finalize: finalize: 0x8d23260 Account- DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:54:40.763581: empathy_ accounts_ dialog_ show_applicatio n: Launching empathy-accounts (if_needed: 0, hidden: 0, account: /org/freedeskto p/Telepathy/ Account/ butterfly/ msn/MYHOTMAIL_ 40hotmail_ 2ecom0) Contact- DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:59:48.631114: contact_ manager_ status_ changed_ cb: Adding new connection: /org/freedeskto p/Telepathy/ Connection/ butterfly/ msn/MYHOTMAIL_ 40hotmail_ 2ecom (null)- DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:59:48.859230: list_ensure_ channel_ cb: failed: TargetID stored not valid for type 3 (null)- DEBUG: 05/15/2010 10:59:48.958123: tp_contact_ list_group_ ready_cb: Group net added
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