found workaround,
it was mudlet that had the dependancy on lrexlib1 0:2.4.0-1~ppa15
and the new version of mudlet that needed liblua5.1-rex-pcre0
if you uninstall mudlet and lrexlib1 0:2.4.0-1~ppa15
then install liblua5.1-rex-pcre0 and the new mudlet everything works fine
it was just a 4 way cross dependancy that was breaking the auto pakage updater
A depends on B Anew depends on C
Anew confilcts with B A conflicts with C B and C conflict with each other
found workaround,
it was mudlet that had the dependancy on lrexlib1 0:2.4.0-1~ppa15
and the new version of mudlet that needed liblua5.1-rex-pcre0
if you uninstall mudlet and lrexlib1 0:2.4.0-1~ppa15
then install liblua5.1-rex-pcre0 and the new mudlet everything works fine
it was just a 4 way cross dependancy that was breaking the auto pakage updater
A depends on B
Anew depends on C
Anew confilcts with B
A conflicts with C
B and C conflict with each other