i found that's why coz notify-osd uses the icons fom human-icon-theme only ?!? and doesnt share them under hicolor, so the way is just to copy all of these started with *notification*, or to link them into your icon theme under /home/USER/.icons/icon_theme/24x24/status/ , or in /home/USER/.icons/hicolor/scalable/status,until the developers of the icon theme make something or until the dev's of notify-osd pack makes it to share its theme for all icon themes.
i found that's why coz notify-osd uses the icons fom human-icon-theme only ?!? and doesnt share them under hicolor, so the way is just to copy all of these started with *notification*, or to link them into your icon theme under /home/USER/ .icons/ icon_theme/ 24x24/status/ , or in /home/USER/ .icons/ hicolor/ scalable/ status, until the developers of the icon theme make something or until the dev's of notify-osd pack makes it to share its theme for all icon themes.