Comment 55 for bug 86798

And as expected the r8168 driver from realtek works fine.

Download&bunzip
sudo -i
make clean
make modules
make install
depmod -a

now blacklist r8169 in /etc/modprobe.d/blacklist.conf

then
update-initramfs -u
reboot

Wired networking works as expected, now to make a script i have to run every time the kernel gets updated......