to reproduce this use the default icon set. in empathy settings untag "show incoming messages in the message menu". then have a person IM you without having his window highlighted.
I can't find the icon to replace (sorry). someone else please look into this.
Confirmed,
to reproduce this use the default icon set. in empathy settings untag "show incoming messages in the message menu". then have a person IM you without having his window highlighted.
I can't find the icon to replace (sorry). someone else please look into this.