Comment 42 for bug 31037

I think gnome-session keeps restarting this process. What seems to be working for me, as a work-around, is to have Remote Desktop disabled in the session-preferences (gnome-session-properties).
Then, I use the command:
dbus-launch /usr/lib/vino/vino-server --display=:0.0 &
usually from a terminal, to start the vino-server. (I saw that somewhere else. It stays running even when you exit the shell. The --display might be optional if you run it from the UI - I ssh into my machine to start the process and therefore need the --display=:0.0)

When I do that, there does not seem to be any problems with remote desktop. But something is broken, one of these days, I'll debug gnome-session...