Ubuntu 18.04 vino does not start up at boottime unable to login with gdm over vino

[Damiön la Bagh]

== Release ==
Description: Ubuntu 18.04 LTS
Release: 18.04
Ubuntu Gnome desktop
gdm login manager

== Package version ==
vino:
  Geïnstalleerd: 3.22.0-3ubuntu1
  Kandidaat: 3.22.0-3ubuntu1
  Versietabel:
 *** 3.22.0-3ubuntu1 500
        500 http://nl.archive.ubuntu.com/ubuntu bionic/main amd64 Packages
        100 /var/lib/dpkg/status

== Expected occurrence ==
set up two users on the system
Install vino
Enable remote desktop sharing for both users
Set a password (8 char wtf)
reboot
Open Remmina on another computer
Set up the connection vnc over ssh
double click the connection
Remmina VNC shows the gdm login screen and allows me to choose a user
Enter that users desktop do some work
Choose Switch User
Switch to the other user and use that desktop
logoff the users
show the gdm screen

== What really happens ==
From step double click the connection
Remmina show a black screen, no gdm
ss -lnt shows no services listening on port 5900
physically login behind the machine that is going to be placed remotely
restart remmina
am able to log in to the logged in desktop
switch users
vino sends a black screen from gdm
log in physically to the 'remote' machine
vino still sends a black screen
reboot the computer
more black screen

in 16.04 I used X11vnc together with a systemctrl x11vnc.service file which worked fine. This is also broken in 18.04.
Tried a vino.service file from one of the forums didn't work vino fails with

vino.service - description about the service
   Loaded: loaded (/lib/systemd/system/vino.service; enabled; vendor preset: ena
   Active: failed (Result: exit-code) since Sun 2018-06-24 20:18:23 CEST; 26min
  Process: 1147 ExecStart=/usr/lib/vino/vino-server (code=exited, status=1/FAILU
 Main PID: 1147 (code=exited, status=1/FAILURE)

jun 24 20:18:23 computer systemd[1]: Started description about the service
jun 24 20:18:23 computer vino-server[1147]: Unable to init server: Kon nie
jun 24 20:18:23 computer vino-server[1147]: Kan scherm ‘’ niet openen
jun 24 20:18:23 computer vino-server[1147]: Voer ‘vino-server --help’ uit
jun 24 20:18:23 computer systemd[1]: vino.service: Main process exited, co
jun 24 20:18:23 computer systemd[1]: vino.service: Failed with result 'exi
lines 1-12/12 (END)

ProblemType: Bug
DistroRelease: Ubuntu 18.04
Package: vino 3.22.0-3ubuntu1
ProcVersionSignature: Ubuntu 4.15.0-23.25-generic 4.15.18
Uname: Linux 4.15.0-23-generic x86_64
ApportVersion: 2.20.9-0ubuntu7.2
Architecture: amd64
CurrentDesktop: ubuntu:GNOME
Date: Sun Jun 24 20:23:08 2018
InstallationDate: Installed on 2018-06-23 (1 days ago)
InstallationMedia: Ubuntu 18.04 LTS "Bionic Beaver" - Release amd64 (20180426)
ProcEnviron:
 TERM=xterm-256color
 PATH=(custom, no user)
 XDG_RUNTIME_DIR=<set>
 LANG=nl_NL.UTF-8
 SHELL=/bin/bash
SourcePackage: vino
UpgradeStatus: No upgrade log present (probably fresh install)

[Launchpad Janitor (janitor)]

Status changed to 'Confirmed' because the bug affects multiple users.