So this is what i get after toggling off the wifi switch on the UI

Lots of with different XYZ
signal sender=:1.8 -> dest=(null destination) serial=87524 path=/org/freedesktop/NetworkManager/Devices/4; interface=org.freedesktop.NetworkManager.Device.Wireless; member=AccessPointRemoved
   object path "/org/freedesktop/NetworkManager/AccessPoint/XYZ"

signal sender=:1.8 -> dest=(null destination) serial=87550 path=/org/freedesktop/NetworkManager/Devices/4; interface=org.freedesktop.NetworkManager.Device; member=StateChanged
   uint32 10
   uint32 100
   uint32 36

signal sender=:1.8 -> dest=(null destination) serial=87611 path=/org/freedesktop/NetworkManager; interface=org.freedesktop.NetworkManager; member=DeviceRemoved
   object path "/org/freedesktop/NetworkManager/Devices/4"

signal sender=:1.8 -> dest=(null destination) serial=87617 path=/org/freedesktop/NetworkManager/ActiveConnection/2; interface=org.freedesktop.NetworkManager.Connection.Active; member=PropertiesChanged
   array [
      dict entry(
         string "Default"
         variant             boolean false
      )
      dict entry(
         string "State"
         variant             uint32 4
      )
      dict entry(
         string "Devices"
         variant             array [
            ]
      )
   ]

signal sender=:1.8 -> dest=(null destination) serial=87618 path=/org/freedesktop/NetworkManager; interface=org.freedesktop.NetworkManager; member=PropertiesChanged
   array [
      dict entry(
         string "PrimaryConnection"
         variant             object path "/"
      )
      dict entry(
         string "WirelessEnabled"
         variant             boolean true
      )
      dict entry(
         string "PrimaryConnectionType"
         variant             string ""
      )
      dict entry(
         string "ActiveConnections"
         variant             array [
               object path "/org/freedesktop/NetworkManager/ActiveConnection/2"
            ]
      )
   ]

signal sender=:1.8 -> dest=(null destination) serial=87619 path=/org/freedesktop/NetworkManager; interface=org.freedesktop.NetworkManager; member=PropertiesChanged
   array [
      dict entry(
         string "ActiveConnections"
         variant             array [
            ]
      )
   ]

signal sender=:1.8 -> dest=(null destination) serial=87628 path=/org/freedesktop/NetworkManager; interface=org.freedesktop.NetworkManager; member=PropertiesChanged
   array [
      dict entry(
         string "WirelessEnabled"
         variant             boolean false
      )
   ]





and this is what i get after calling nmcli nm on a different terminal

signal sender=:1.8 -> dest=(null destination) serial=87631 path=/org/freedesktop/NetworkManager; interface=org.freedesktop.NetworkManager; member=StateChanged
   uint32 20

signal sender=:1.8 -> dest=(null destination) serial=87633 path=/org/freedesktop/NetworkManager; interface=org.freedesktop.NetworkManager; member=PropertiesChanged
   array [
      dict entry(
         string "State"
         variant             uint32 20
      )
   ]



So it really seems something in networkmanager is forgetting to send the StateChanged for org.freedesktop.NetworkManager until poked